Hi,
I've posted before about DP -- both in terms of his drinking and thinking about leaving him. Either way, he is addressing the drinking (apparently) and while he's still in the house and still the father of our DC, and just because I still care on some level, I want him to succeed.
He's had a meeting with a place, finally, after starting on this whole thing in Feb (after about three years of me pushing him and him denying he had a problem. He now admits he does). He is still drinking daily. He says he's cut down but a few times recently he has had more again, extra glass of wine cos we're having Italian food, going for a beer in a cafe when walking the baby around...hmm..and then he still drinks his daily "ration".
Today I called him on this, the fact that he is making excuses and things. He says this is how addiction works, he can't just stop. I think he is now using the addiction word to silence me as nothing is changing.
What I am wondering is should I encourage him to go to actual residential rehab? He has BUPA through work though I don't know if that will cover any of that (anyone know?). Thing is, he's not a massive alcoholic. It causes huge problems in our relationship, and he is addicted, but he is functioning. Never drinks in the day. Just every night till the wee small hours, has about 4 cans every night after I go to bed, maybe a bit more.
Is this too low a level to be thinking about rehab?
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LambChopsMcGee · 15/06/2017 17:46
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