A couple of years ago we were phoned by my ex husband's ex girlfriend and told to pick boys up as their dad was an alcoholic. He was in a real mess but claimed to have recovered and put it down to being unhappy in the relationship. It took a while to trust him again but he seemed to get back on track, was back at work & boys didn't say anything to ring alarm bells.
A few months back I received a call from my youngest son asking to pick him up because his dad kept sleeping. It was clear from the moment I walked in that he was out of it on drink. I was angry and upset that he had got like that when he had my son (nearly 13) with him. Following this set back we didn't trust him to pick boys up do drove them to see him for visits. Again he claimed to have got himself sorted, said he had thrown out all drink and was feeling much better. He was going to work regularly and foolishly I had started to believe he had really started to turn a corner.
Fast forward to today. He said yesterday that he would have boys for tea today as they haven't seen him for a while. DS2 was half day at school today so said he would get off his school bus at his dad's stop. He can only have been there 30 minutes before he phoned on his dad's phone asking us to pick him up as his dad was ill. Immediately I knew what I would be walking into and I was right. Ex h slumped on the sofa totally out of it. My son heard him pour himself a drink then hiccup before we arrived. I can't have my boys exposed to this anymore. DS was in bits during the drive home. I feel a mixture of anger and upset. Why has he done this again? He will kill himself and my boys will lose their dad. What can I do? My boys are 16 and 13
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My boys' dad is an alcoholic
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pinkchampagne1 · 04/05/2016 18:20
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