Both DH parents are/were alcoholics (one dead at 65, other v poor health status).
DH has a history of alcohol issues - you can read my thread from relationships for background below.
He has just told me that he has been secret weekend binge drinking at night when the rest of us are in bed (only after I found him absolutely comatosed on the sofa). He has now gone teetotal (again) but does not consider himself an alcoholic. He says he will look at counselling but AA is far too extreme.
Should I just be grateful for this - or is it doomed to fail? I feel angry with him for hiding the issue for years and then not seeing what he is and what needs to be done - or am I just being a controlling co-dep?
Do I need to be compassionate and sympathetic for it to work? I dont feel it.
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Anyone else finding it hard to be sympathetic and compassionate to alcoholic OH?
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Somethingtodo · 22/07/2015 17:49
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