Had an upset with DS this evening.
It has happened before and its heartbreaking. Its not always easy to predict/avoid.
'The Royal' was on tv. There was a storyline about a unmarried mum who was being asked to give newborn up for adoption (this bit passed DS by). The thing that really upset him was that the mum ran away with the baby and ended up hanging of a cliff. Baby was rescued but mum plunged into the sea.
I wasnt expecting it or I would have switched tv over/off. DS started crying and asking 'what happened to her, how will she get back to her baby? How will she see him again?' etc etc. His little face was so sad and it breaks my heart when he gets like this.
It has happened with several tv programmes and DVDs. I can avoid the obvious ones about adoption and bereavement but some things come from out of the blue. The first time it happened was with 'Hook' when you see the newborn Peter being carried away by Tinkerbelle. DS just started crying and was inconsolable. It was all so sudden and he was only tiny. He was about 3ish when it happened.
He is aware that he had another mum before us, that she didint always feed him and pick him up when he needed it. He wasnt aware of this the first time he became upet though. It seems to come from somewhere very deep inside.
He has been with us since he was 8 weeks (as fosterbaby). We adopted him when he was 2. His first 2 years were very disrupted due to the assesements and contacts.
I was wondering if this has happened to anyone else? Its so sad.
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Anyone else's child react like this?
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chegirl · 05/07/2009 23:22
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