2 years in.. Thought things would be easier by now. Reality is I'm tired, worn down and I don't know how to make it better.
DD has attatchment issues - seems to hate me.. Defiant, tantrums about everything / anything that doesn't go her way. Am so worn down by all the screaming. She is as good as gold for everyone else.
Some of it is because she is 4 I guess, but she is such an angry child for me. 2 emotional states.. Happy or screaming. It's all so melodramatic. I know I need to be more empathetic but I just feel like nothing I say or do works.
Have read countless adoption books.. Am more confused than ever if I should be strict, permisive, nuture more or tighten up the boundaries.
Any suggestions from adopters out there gratefully received.
Thanks for listening.
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whenyouwishuponastar · 14/02/2009 12:25
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