A friend and her husband are starting to discuss whether adoption might be an option for them. They are both early 30's professional, solvent, healthy, well-balanced, fun, interesting people.
There is no reason why they could not have a biological child as far as they know, but it all comes down to the fact that her DH doesn't want a baby - although he would like a child. He just doesn't "get" the baby stage, and doesn't see why they should have to go through that if there is an alternative. OK, I'm probably putting words into his mouth here, but you get the picture.
Frankly I am concerned for my friend - it seems odd to me and I feel it would also seem strange to an adoption panel. I'm not sure they would be embarking on this for the right reasons and would appreciate any advice & opinions from those with more experience.
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cyanarasamba · 21/07/2008 21:56
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