I'm 40, divorced, stable new relationship (2 years +), 2 existing DC of 8&6 who have a wonderful relationship with my partner. I have them about 70% of the time.
A close family friend has been through the adoption process and so I have a vague idea of what is involved. It has also instigated some discussion at the dinner table amongst my DC.
Anyway, they appear adamant that they would never want an adopted brother or sister. But they would love a child that I "grew". The "grow it yourself" option doesn't seem to be happening and also I favour adoption for various reasons.
Anyway, my family friend reported that they wouldn't consider her application unless her existing child was "on board". Can someone with experience advise how prohibitive my DC's views would be to progressing?
I obviously would never plough on and disregard their views but I do feel that I am the adult and they cannot be responsible for a huge decision like this?
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Icouldstillbejoseph · 17/10/2019 19:53
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