So me and my Husband have been ttc for just over 2 years now. We have had tests done and everything has come back fine. We've decided to give it a few more months of trying and if we have no luck then we are planning on looking into adoption as we feel IVF is not for us.
We have been looking into adoption and feel excited about it but the main thing that concerns me is the guilt I would feel . I know children get taken away from their birth parents for a reason but that would not stop me feeling so guilty for having their child. I cannot imagine the pain they would have to live with for the rest of their lives and this is something I would struggle with .
Have any adoptive parents struggled with this?
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92Taylorel · 08/06/2019 22:17
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