met with other birth brother a yr and a half ago and thats been going really well. and today got letter and photos from my elder brother (we were all adopted out to different families). its sooooo exciting i cant concentrate on anything and want to meet him RIGHT NOW!!!! except he is in London and i am in Devon so am gonna have to wait a bit longer. but he is calling me back tonight after work. he seems lovely, really down to earth and i cant wait to meet him!
My friedn who is adopted has no interest in tracing his birth mother but is desparately curious about his birth brother whom she kept. Tracing one would therefore mean in effect tracing both so he hasn't decided what to do yet. I hope your eventual meeting goes really well