I posted a week or so ago about Dd pulling her hair out. I have been watching closely and am pretty sure this a comfort thing. Since Xmas she has been waking up at 5 every day and has been super tired. Xmas is around the time the bald patch appeared. When tired she wants her bottle, when sucking on said bottle she pulls her hair out and wraps it around the bottle sucking it!
I am going to see a doctor next week anyway but I cannot stop thinking about it so would appreciate some advice please.
From what I can tell she needs more sleep and to get rid of those bottles.
Problem A, sleep. I cannot get her to sleep later than 5am. I have cut her nap to an hour but it has made no difference. She needs more sleep but won’t stay asleep at all! I put her to bed at 7ish, asleep by half past and up at around 4.45-5am. Grumpy all day, sleeps for an hour and grumpy again by 4/5am. All the health visitor can suggest is letting her cry but I don’t want to do this to her if I can avoid it plus I have an older Ds who will not be pleased at being woken by her screams.
Problem b is the bottle. She had always been dependant on it, falls asleep with it and finds comfort when upset, scared or tired. We have never wanted to take that from her and wanted to gently encourage her to give it up over the next few months but I can’t let her spend the next few months pulling out her beautiful long hair :(
Problem C hisbis all guess work and observation so I could be totally wrong. DH just says take her to doctors but she isn’t “sick” so I don’t think they can help.
For extra info she is almost 2.5 and has been home 18 months. Nothing stressful going on since Xmas and is generally a happy little girl. Thanks for any help ladies. I would like to have a strategy before I start pulling my own hair out.
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Hair pulling and bottles? This is driving me mad!
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hidinginthenightgarden · 22/02/2018 21:19
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