Hello. I have been lurking on here for some time and have some very basic questions I was hoping for some help with from you lovely people. My situation is that I am married with a bc who is three. Before we got married we talked about adopting and are still keen to do so. I am 43 and dh is 40. We don’t plan to have any more birth children (due to traumatic birth with bc and my age) but we would really like another child. Ideally we would like to adopt a child who is 3 or 4 and so would like to wait until bc is around 8 or 9 so there is a big enough age gap, so it’s all very hypothetical at the moment. My questions are:
- I am mixed race and dh is white British. Would me being mixed race affect our chance of matching with a child? How much is ethnicity a factor (I am white British and another ethnicity which is very rare in this country so extremely unlikely to match with a child the same). This isn’t an issue for us but would it be an issue for social workers when considering us?
- DH is catholic and I am not religious. Our bc is being brought up Catholic. How does this work if you adopt a child? Especially a child who is a bit older? We would like to bring ac up in the same way as bc but interested to know what the rules are around this.
Thank you for your help!
x