DD has been home a year and is 2.
MIL watched her one day last week and also picked DS up from school.
She told me today that in the playground last week DD wandered off to play on some equipment where another child was playing and that the mum (who had been speaking to another mum) stopped talking and said "one minute, I have to watch her with X, she is a little bully".
DD is not a bully. She is a 2 yr old who is behind on her speech and communication and is doing her best.
DD has never bullied her son. Sometimes they both want to play with the same toy hanging round the playground and if the boy gets to it first she tends to hover around him hoping he will give it her. She has tried to take it from him once or twice but is always told no and offered something else.
I am hurt that they have said presumably thinking no one could hear them. They don't know the circumstances surrounding her start in life or even that she is adopted but even if they did I feel hurt by what they have said.
Even more frustrating is that mil has a tendency to exaggerate things and so it is very possible this mum said something closer to "oh I best watch these two" etc. This makes it worse as I am both confused and hurt. Either mums are labelling my child or my MIL is making things up that are clearly going to be upsetting at some level for me to hear.
Not sure what I am gaining from this post other than a moan someone other than at DH.
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hidinginthenightgarden · 04/12/2017 18:18
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