I know this will be controversial, but it's more from a safeguarding point of view.
We are in Stage 2, and have been asked our views on meeting the birth family. Both of us would be happy to do so as we can see the benefits, but we are more concerned we could be 'found' if there was a safeguarding risk.
If the birth family wanted to find us we are very 'out there' on social media, and nationally (I won't say anymore), and if they knew our names they could very easily find where we work and potentially follow us home if they recognised our faces from that meeting.
Would it go against us at matching if we said no to meeting the birth family? Or if there was a safeguarding issue anyway we wouldn't be expected to meet them because of this?
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howmanyusernames · 06/11/2017 15:10
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