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AD been with me for 11 years, she's 13 now. We've had long term issues with stealing, lying, everyday defiance from day 1 - all control issues whose origin I'm fully educated about. Things settled down a few years ago and we do have a loving, trusting and close relationship most of the time.
However as the dreaded adolescence and hormones have kicked in the controlling behaviours have ramped up again during the last year. She's been stealing, lying and defying on an industrial scale for a year now and it's getting serious insofar as we've had to have police involvement.
She's been having art therapy via the ASF for the last year, I too am paying privately for therapy specifically regarding the parenting of a traumatised child.
The art therapy has been really helpful for dealing with issues around birth family, identity, abandonment, being an adopted child. But it's not helping with the controlling behaviours.
Can any of you point me in the direction of any particular school of therapeutic intervention that could help with these very common adopted children issues? We have good adoption support through the local authority but I need to identify exactly what resource might be most helpful in terms of further applications to the ASF.
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exhaustedmumofone · 10/10/2017 23:48
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