So, my 6 year old has settled reasonably well at school, she's making friends, goes into class without fuss and seems to be happy there. Getting her to do homework however is a living nightmare.
She argues and tantrums as soon as we mention it, she doesn't focus or pay attention and each time will mess about. It's not a lot of homework - maybe copying a few letters and reading/recognising words and letters. It's stuff I know she knows because she's read through it before, recognised the words elsewhere but actually sitting her down to do her homework is dreadful. It doesn't seem to matter whether we do it straight after school, give a snack and do it or try after dinner the result is always the same, I don't want it to become a battle but she literally screams until I let her down from the table - getting her to do it means trying to find a way through tears and tantrums. We've tried using blackboards, felt letters, playing schools, talking about why it's important, using natural consequences (if you do homework without fuss you'll have time for playing before dinner). We're very affirming of her when she gets things right and give lots of support if she's struggling but she can get a word right, then look at it again 10 seconds later and it be wrong - which is infuriating and draws the whole thing out because we don't know if she's had a lucky
Today she created merry hell and I just didn't have the energy to try and reason with her so she's playing with her brother while I dread approaching it with her again because she knows I've given in this time so will scream all the more next time. And I'm feeling annoyed that she just won't sit and do the damned homework - she could have done it 10 times over in the time it's taken to scream about it.
Any ideas?
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Jellycatspyjamas · 03/10/2017 16:29
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