I'm hoping someone has experience with this?
DH and I are currently on stage 2 of our application, and our preference is to foster to adopt. One of the reasons for this is to maximise the amount of time there will be a SAHP with any child placed with us. I am the high earner in our relationship and DH earns the equivalent of what our LA will pay to foster carers (including those doing F2A). My employer will give me 6 months of full pay adoption leave, then 3 months statutory, then 3 months unpaid.
Therefore what makes most sense for us is for DH to take a career break if we are offered a F2A placement, with me carrying on working full-time (but flexibly, with lots of working from home, which my employer is fine with). Then if we are lucky enough for it to become an adoption placement, DH will end his career break and I will begin my adoption leave.
DH is currently clearing the career break idea with his employers (as obviously due to the nature of the placement it could all be quite short notice), but I wonder if anyone else has any experience of doings this? Reading online hasn't really set my mind at ease as it seems that I should be taking my adoption leave as soon as a F2A placement starts, which I really don't want to do as if a child were then returned to it's birth family, I would not be entitled to a further amount of adoption leave if another placement began at short notice.
It would also work out better financially as we would get (assuming the fostering placement lasted 12 months, just so I have a figure to use) 18 months of the child having a SAHP at full pay (with DH's pay being effectively matched by the LA whilst he is on a career break). If I just take the adoption leave as soon as a child is placed, we then only have 6 months of full pay.
I realise reading this that it seems I am more concerned with finances than I should be, but realistically I have to think of what will work best as a family - and although the finances do appear to swing it, actually I believe that a child having a SAHP for the first potentially 18 months with us would be much more beneficial than just 6 months. If it's relevant, my DH will go part time once he returns to work, and I will work condensed full-time hours of 3 long days in the office and one shorter day at home.
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KallyBox · 15/05/2017 15:56
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