Sorry for what is potentially another rant.
Today our case was deferred for a few weeks as DD Bfather turned up to court to contest (no sign of mum). It is so unlikely that she will be returned to him or any of his family/friends (he put forward about a dozen people to be assessed to have her before adoption was decided) that I don't see the point in allowing them to even contest.
Surely this is the case for all adoptions. They wouldn't place the child if they thought there was any chance of the child being returned so why isn't this done when the child is first put up for adoption? Surely that is the tie to contest?
I don't see who benefits at this point.
The courts are using money and resources that could be better spent elsewhere.
Adoptive parents are stressed over it.
Birth parents have some false hope that they may have child returned and most importantly, a child is still in limbo because the system dictates that this should occur.
Maybe there are cases where children are returned but they would I imagine be so few that finding one would be difficult.
Is there a reason for this madness?
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luckylucky24 · 11/04/2017 17:27
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