DD has been with us since October. She is doing really well. She is 15 months and hitting all her milestones with lots of smiles.
As yet she has only been left without both of us for half an hour whilst mil watched her at our house with DS. To start with she wasn't keen on mil but recently has been much more accepting of her. She doesn't actively seek her when in her company (wouldn't expect her to this early) but if handed to her will willingly be held by her and was fine for the half hour we were out.
I know DH has struggled with the lack of us time and keeps suggesting things that I have continuously knocked back as it didn't feel right.
Tonight he has asked if he can book tickets for a show in may. It would likely mean the kids staying overnight at mil which I am not sure I am comfortable with.
Right now I feel that May is too soon but I know the reality is that sooner or later this is going to happen and I am struggling to see whether I am struggling for me or for DD. I don't want my relationship to suffer because I am being overprotective but I don't want DD to suffer because DH feels we don't get enough time together even though he ignores me most evenings when the kids are in bed.
I will say that DS would be with her which may help as she adores him and he seems to bring her great comfort.
By may she will have been with us for 8 months. Would you say yes or no?
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luckylucky24 · 03/02/2017 20:01
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