I have noticed during the last couple of letters it has become more about the questions my child's parents have in regards to myself than it does what my child would want to know.
My son is 6 and they are asking where I'm working. If I'm still working for the same employer and at the same location.
This concerns me as it feels they are now using letterbox to find where abouts in the country I am and where I am likely to be.
I feel it's irrelevant if I still work at the same place or not. I'm working and progressing well and that's what matters
If they had asked my role I would have taken less notice.
I've also noted there is very little information about my child.
I'm now wondering if my early willingness to share has resulted in contact no longer being focused on what's best for my son and as a result I'm considering reducing it to once per year until he is old enough to decide. However I don't want to close doors that I will struggle opening again later
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OurMiracle1106 · 25/08/2016 20:21
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