I am a regular but frequent name changer.
Today we met with our SW and were told that Lo's SW had expressed that we "do not seem that excited about the match".
sigh I really do not know what they expect from us. We met SW for about 40 minutes, showed her round and asked some questions about parents and foster carer, how lo was doing etc. Most practical questions we had were for the medical advisor and foster carer and we didn't see the point in bringing them up. We talked about what we like to do as a family - they had no questions for us.
How were we meant to behave? Should we be bursting with excitement when we open the door? Surely most people are a little apprehensive at having strangers in their home scrutinising them constantly.
We have assured them as best we can that we are excited and have started preparing but to be honest we are exhausted by the whole process now. We have our birth child so need to keep things normal and are both working full time whilst undergoing all this. What more do they want as I feel we are reaching our emotional limits?!
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jimbob1 · 18/08/2016 18:36
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