Hi all,
We are now 4 months into placement with our AD who is now 22 months old. After a rocky start things are going well at the moment. She is a happy little diva and we are all enjoying having her home.
we are now at the point where this is pressure from all sides to meet the FC again, she was with the same FC from birth to 18 months. They were v close and she grieved really hard for her in the early days. I am absolutely petrified the meet up will undo all of our hard work and set her back by months. I also know it us something we need to do, we got on brilliantly with the FC and her family and have kept in regular contact since. AD has pictures of them in her room and looks at them daily with no distress.
I just wondered if anyone had any advice or pearls of wisdom about how to handle this? Where have people met FCs and how did your children react?
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Mrscollydog · 11/06/2016 07:11
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