Ok i could do with some advice from people who have walked this path.
DD is 2 years 1 month, came to us at 11 months and has shown healthy attachment development in the 14 months since she started living with us. confident with others but checking in with us.
I have returned to work this week and in preparation she has been attending nursery starting slowly and building up to full days 3 weeks ago , im working 3 days a week.
I take her to nursery at breakfast time , food has worked really well as a distraction , nursery staff said until this week she was really settled , she would look for me and have a few tears but be comforted and she gets very excited when she sees her nursery bag and happy to go in , very excited . but she has started to say mummy stay . I reply "no mummy is off shopping you can stay play with your friends and mummy see you later" ( she doesn't like shopping trolleys). this has worked very well for 3 weeks
However the last two days she has been really upset , shouting out for either me or daddy.she is still excited and goes in happily
Nursery staff have suggested we drop her and leave, but i really don't know what to do for the best, this is new to me and Im feeling pretty raw and confused about what to do .
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meandyouplustwo · 19/04/2016 20:28
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