As you know from my 'whingey' thread, we are going to panel in a week or so
DS-to-be has SEN (speech and language and GDD) but no EHCP as he has caught up amazingly from being non-verbal a year ago to managing OK with FT 1:1. His Ed Psych recommends reviewing this at the end of his year as he may need an EHCP for the next school year as he is around 2 years delayed and it may be too difficult without ringfenced funding.
As a LAC our LA has reassured us he is entitled to a place at any of the local schools and 'don't let them tell you they are full'.
However, in practise, we are getting the serious cold shoulder from all the schools bar one. The local school is a faith school with LAC at the top of the admissions criteria but they just are dragging their heels in arranging a visit and have gone 'non contact'. Having read their public minutes, I gather they take in a lot of SEN pupils but do not get adequately reimbursed for their costs (we are on the borders of two towns and one funds in one way and the other in another) and I suspect they are reluctant to take him on as he needs FT 1:1 even during breaks (the school he is currently at fund this through a special fund of their own topped up with LA funding).
Another school said 'the head is a very busy man, email us your request and he can see if he has time to show you around'...
A third said there was a 2 year wait, I challenged it as he is LAC and am waiting for a response...
Our DS's SW has said they are happy to get their Virtual Head to liaise with our Virtual Head (he is out of area) to get him into any school we see is the best choice but until we have viewed and interviewed them we can't say which would be best.
Now, I could get the 'big guns' in and tell his SW the schools here are not playing ball, and get them involved, but, I am a bit reluctant to do that as we have not yet been to Panel and I don't want to jeopardise it if they feel we don't have good school options for him. They might turn us down as potential adopters if we can't meet his needs.
I have emailed all the schools again to push for a response so that it's in writing.
Next steps?
I'm aware I could pick any school on the forms and he should, in theory, be given a place, but for various reasons school is a really important aspect of his life (his school were instrumental in getting him moved into the care system) and it needs to be the right one.
Grr. Don't make me go Mama Bear on yo asses, schools.
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PootlewasthebestFlump · 11/02/2016 14:20
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