Hello, I'm posting for a bit of hand holding really. DS(4) has been home for 16 months. We had a lot of behaviour problems in the early days and he still has control issues and some challenging behaviour at home. Last year at nursery he was very quiet and shy.
Anyway, he started school this year with an ehcp as he has very delayed language so is in a speech and language unit attached to a mainstream school. All was well for a few weeks and academically he is thriving. However, his behaviour is getting worse and worse. Hitting, spitting, slapping and biting teachers and today he threw a chair across the room. We are also getting bad reports from transport (undoing seatbelts, refusing to sit where told, trying to climb over seats, spitting etc).
I'm a bit lost as to know what to do or say when we get these reports. My instinct is to be horrified and cross, but an opposing instinct is to wrap him up and protect him from this crazy world that he can't cope with. There have been staff changes at school and some weeks he has as many as three different escorts on the minibus.
It is hard to talk to him meaningfully about his behaviour as I am not sure how much he understands. However tonight when talking about it he said 'try again good boy' then he cried and said 'help me mummy'. It broke my heart. I don't know how to help him when I'm not there!
I have spoken to the senco and she is looking into play therapy for next term.
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slkk · 03/12/2015 17:10
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