How are your relationships with friends, husbands, wives, family?
At the grand age if 35 I have no friends, two acquaintances who I meet up with every now and again & I don't speak to my adoptive parents (see previous thread on here somewhere).
Really what I mean is that I have a hard time dealing with people. Some hate me from the minute they meet me, some dislike me & some put up with me. Which I find odd because at work I've always had great relationships and make friends easily & get in well with everyone in that situation.
I have a tendency to push people away because I've been deeply hurt, physically & emotionally & rejected all my life. How ever some relationships have just drifted apart. It's got to the stage that I have no one to turn to only my DH who has made it clear that I have issues with relationships & he hates to see me like this now. I argue with him constantly because I am so unhappy & they way things are going I'll push him away to.
I was wondering if anyone else behaves the same way? If you changed it for the better or if I should just go and see a counsellor (not that that will change he relationships I no longer have).
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yogababymum · 09/08/2015 20:18
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