Hi, I have been family finding since I was approved in March and it's not going well. I reached a new personal best yesterday and was turned down for 4 different children, have also reached a new low.
I know all the stats and that there are way more adopters than babies but it doesn't make the wait any easier. One of my knock backs from adoption link yesterday said they they had received over 100 adopter profiles within 48 hours...WTAF?
My SW is off on holiday again but has asked me to think while she is away if I want to continue knowing about kids she has put me forward for or just wait to be told I have been linked. She has made it to one linking meeting for me but the panel decided on the other adoptor an that was just heart breaking.
I don't know what to do about the updates, will silence be worse than the sorrys you won't be taken forwards?
Head is well and truly mush today
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MintyLizzy9 · 25/07/2015 08:59
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