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Hi all looking for some advice and reassurance. Having been approved as a single adopter in April i feel like I've been pretty much in the dark and frustrated ever since. My SW is very nice but i worry about how affective she is. To date she's forgotten to book me on to an activity day depsite me checking 3 or 4 times in the lead up to the event and getting answers to questions is like getting blood out of a stone which leaves me frustrated. I have shown interest in 3-4 children but have heard nothing back from either mine of the childrens SW. There was one particular child i showed interst in via BMP but getting any information or feedback from the childs SW proved tortuous. I was told there were a number of parents interested in this particular child and therefore a short list would be created.....3 weeks later i had heard nothing depsite following up with 3 light hearted, non pushy emails. Eventually my SW told me I hadn't been shortlisted but it took her 3 days to tell me. Is this normal? Communication and feedabck seems to be a problem with the SW's ive dealt with thus far.
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DaisyD123 · 06/06/2015 17:08
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