Me and dh are seriously considering adoption. Someone from LA should call us next week. Ds will be two in March. There needs to be a two year gap between children. Our LA does have babies which come up for adoption. We have no family to help out.
Lacking family help, It would have been difficult to manage with a bc but I am now wondering if it would be too difficult to give an adopted child the extra time and attention they would need. I have remembered a friend with a toddler and a baby saying the baby just gets ignored! But obviously it would not be right to ignore an adopted child given the attachment issues they are likely to have. I would be able to take 13 months off work, ds would be in nursery three days a week, giving me three days to solely concentrate on AC.
Ds is currently a very affectionate child who likes a lot of attention and cuddles and gets upset if I interact 'too much' with other children especially if I touch them!
Any thoughts on this?
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Is it unrealistic to adopt as I have a toddler (bc)?
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Uphigh · 11/01/2015 09:54
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