I'm sure some of you will remember me my DH and we had a break down in Introductions in May of this year. Since then we have been attending courses and working very hard to satisfy our Adoption Team that we are ready to try again. We go to Panel at the end of February (as it is now a year since we were passed as Adopters) and then they will start the process of looking for us.
I have not worked properly since May but have been offered a job of 14.5 hours a week and am a bit torn about accepting it. I do need to work from the point of view of keeping me busy as I have now completed the a Parenting Course they suggested and worked in Nurseries etc but feel guilty that of course I won't be able to tell them from the outset that I may only be with them a matter of months. Of course it could be many months we just don't know. My DH thinks I should go for the job as I would be on a 6 month probation period anyway, but then he works in a pretty cut throat industry and mine is a more caring field. I would be required to give 4 weeks notice period of leaving.
The other difficulty I will have is that they will require me to have enhanced Police clearance for the job and I would have to explain I already have this ( because of the Adoption Process requiring it) and they might wonder and ask me why?
Any thoughts please???
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ShootingStarsinthesky · 18/12/2014 17:45
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