Hi, me again!
DH and I are coming to the conclusion we need some professional input to help with DD, both at home and school. She has been placed 6 months and the honeymoon period is well and truly over.
I suspect she may have some sensory issues, and we definitely are seeing controlling/attention/attachment seeking behaviours. School is very challenging for her and I am of the opinion that we need some intervention sooner rather than later in order for her to reach her full potential.
We've spoken to both our SW and the placing agency who have said they'll fund assessment/support for 3 years. We have applied for AO but not received court date. Placing LA says they fund support for 3 yrs regardless of status of AO. In fairness, they did do a lot more pre placement support than I've heard about with other agencies/adopters.
Initially the placing agency is talking about sending one of their internal team who did life story work with the DC pre placement.
I'm not keen on this for 3 reasons.
- Last time the DC saw their social worker for a statutory visit (early this week), they became massively unsettled. They are only just coming back down to earth. I don't think the, seeing professionals from their 'past life' will be helpful.
- I don't know what her qualifications are (I know I could ask, but I don't know what to ask for... See below)
- During the work she did pre-placement she came to the conclusion there were no serious issues. In fairness, there weren't then (obvious ones at least) but I'm concerned this will colour her view of any issues we're experiencing now.
I also just didn't gel with her particularly.
So, what should I be asking for? DD, to me, could have a range of issues.... Attachment, sensory, maybe ADHD (although teacher thinks not)...
I want someone with experience of all these areas (is that even possible??) to do a full assessment at home and school. Is this what I should be asking for as a first step? Can I insist on it?
Would this assessment need to be done as a first step to getting a statement of educational needs or would a different assessment need to be carried out.
Any advice on this welcome. It's such a minefield....
Thanks so much. Again!