pictures

[OurMiracle1106]

So I decided due to social worker being away not to send any photos of myself mainly because I don't know who they are going to be shared with (including whether my ex could view them) and I wanted to make sure they would be kept private. Ie not shown to other members of their family so if I did bump into any of their family they wouldn't recognise me

They have their right to privacy and I feel I do too.I want to make sure they are kept securely and for the purpose intended which is so our ds has access to picture of his birth mum.

[Hels20]

Hi Miracle - this seems like a sensible decision - and you are right - you have a right to privacy too. So have you asked for them just to be left on your son's file?

[Kewcumber]

Yes I'd feel the same way in your position. Have you dropped sw an email saying this - she can read it when she gets back.

[OurMiracle1106]

Because the letter was just passed I decided to keep the photos until our sons social worker comes back in April and discuss it with her then

[Kewcumber]

In fact if I were an adoptive parent in this position I would feel quite reassured that you had a good grasp of privacy.