Had a hysterectomy at 26. I was so poorly I thought my child deserved a mum who could be an active mum. So made the hard decision. Life wasn't good and figured my family was complete and ok.
Things changed. I became single. Found love with my first love who I've always missed and wondered about. He is fine with my inability to have children. And treats my child wonderfully.
Thing is, I really wish I could give him a child. He says it matters not. But I feel it does
Really hard to explain.
Anyway. My child is 12. Am I selfish for thinking of adoption? How does it affect older (single) children?
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bzoo · 14/01/2014 19:48
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