Have NC'd for this.
We are well into our home study. During our home study we have done many things (including modifications to our home) that we didn't necessarily agree with, but did 'for the greater good' and have talked about countless things that we think only had a tenuous link to being relevant in our quest to adopt.
We are now being asked to do something that I fundamentally disagree with - My view is that the thing we are being asked to do is Orwellian. DH is fairly 'meh' about it. Any resistance to doing it will be seen as not being committed to the process (rather than the objection to the principal of being asked to do it - which is what this most definitely is).
We have been told not doing this is a deal breaker in our application so I'm not even sure why I'm posting this as we have no choice....
Have any of you have 'drawn the line' and refused to do something during home study? If so, what was the outcome?
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wonderinglots · 06/11/2013 18:49
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