My lovely neighbour has been matched and will start introductions soon with 2 year old Soon-to-be-DD (Z).
When Z comes to live with my neighbour I would like to get her a little handmade card.
What's the best wording for the card. "Congratulations on your (new?) DD, Z", "Welcome Z" or none of the above, I'm a bit clueless and don't want to offend. Or are cards not the done thing? I kept all my "new baby" cards as a keepsake and thought it would be nice for her to have the same, because I see it as the same. New baby or toddler, we are welcoming a little life regardless of how long it took to find their family.
Also how should I explain to my DDs about Z? They are 5 and 3. I was thinking of saying that some children are born to one family but aren't supposed to be with them so take some time before going to their new mummy, the one they are suppose to be with. But again I'm clueless and don't want to create an issue in the future when DDs are playing with Z.
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ClutchingPearls · 03/05/2013 20:54
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