I wonder if any of you have experienced a similar experience and could give me some advice or your story as I feel at a loss at the moment.
I am 46 and my DH is 48 we have no children between us and married one year ago, although we have been together several years and knew each other in the past as well and reunited. I had one pregnancy and miscarried 18 months ago after trying 4 cycles of Clomid we have since been unable to get pregnant. We discussed egg donation because of my age but decided adoption might be a better option as egg donation could be a long and expense process.
We have started the adoption process, been on the adopter's course and are now having visits from our assigned SW but I still find myself bringing up the subject of egg donation to which my husband says he thought we had decided on adoption and if we try one round of egg donation we could lose the opportunity to adopt if we stopped the process now.
I have been happy with the idea of adoption and wonder if my confusion is a reaction to the lose of control you feel over the adoption process and a fear that we may not make it through the adoption process. Has anyone else had these doubts/ fears??
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buckinghamshiredreamer · 29/11/2012 22:08
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