My husband is 42 also and we have 3 children aged from 11-16. I feel as a family we would have a lot to offer a child - I have contacted an adoption agency and was advised by a SW that adopting when there are biological children doesn't work as the child feels different. He said he based this on speaking to adult children who have been adopted. This has really put me off as the last thing we would want to do is create more issues for the child to deal with.
I would also like to ask if 42 is too old? I would not be wanting to adopt a baby, but would love to nurture and support a child who would benefit from belonging to a loving family. He suggested that we look at fostering I am however the sort of person who gives 110% and I am concerned that I would find it difficult letting the child go.
Any thoughts would be much appreciated.
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on adoption.
Adoption
42 with biological children: suitability to adopt, advice please?
analyticalannie · 06/08/2011 21:53
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