I'm writing up my thesis and my supervisor is on holiday for the whole summer, so just before we start, I'm an emotional wreck with no sense of perspective Please hand me a grip/reassure me everything will be ok!
So, postdoc choices: I was in the amazing position of having a choice. One for 3 years but somewhere I didn't want to live vs an excellent institution in a team I already know that pays three times more. On paper a no-brainer. Except I had no details on #2 when #1 acceptance deadline came up so I made a snap decision and said yes to #2. Now it turns out there's only 1 year of money in #2 and I'll only be paid an assistant salary until I graduate which could be 6 months because of the waiting list at my university. Both needed an international move, but #2 is a really expensive city, so know I'm looking at another year of employment uncertainty worry (who knows what I do in a year) plus not being able to afford to fly back to my husband regularly and probably living in shithole. A year doesn't really give me time to settle, make friends, get papers out, learn the language, anything. I can't really complain at work because I don't want to moan about my next boss since it was the usual rather nepotistic appointment process, and I know I'm lucky to have a job at all and it'll be good for my CV.
I'm just having a bit of a wobble and hoped someone with more experience to tell me it's good for me and I'll get something out of it! Auto-grip handing isn't really working!
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lekkerkroketje · 15/08/2016 13:53
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