I’m currently on maternity leave, DS is 7 months.
I’m the manager of a small team in a niche field. We are an agency so I have clients. My direct team was made up of 2 managers and 2 juniors who had been with me 3 years+ and were fab. I left the team in a really good place. Work also hired a consultant/ contractor to replace me when I left.
Work called a couple of months ago to tell me my entire team have quit. Not a single one was left. Then, they hired a new team, waited 3 months for them all to start but now I’ve had another phone call from work to tell me they’ve all quit too.
I called every member of my old team and they were really honest with me and said they weren’t getting the support they needed and were burnt out. They were getting offers through LinkedIn every other day so it was easy decisions all around to move on. I passed this info on to my MD.
My line manager (MD) called me last week and she looked in a really bad way. Another 2 senior managers at my level have also quit leaving 2 other teams leaderless, and hiring at the moment is absolutely horrendous. People with no experience are demanding £25k+ when 3 months ago the going rate was £18k starting salaries and other agencies are paying it because they’re so desperate for staff. Hiring anyone with experience is even worse.
I’m due back to work in April, but by then we could easily have lost every client and I wouldn’t have a job to go back to.
I’m considering using my 7 remaining kit days to interview and hire a new team, then return to work when they all start (most will be 3 months notice) so I can stabilise and nurture the new team and hopefully make them stick.
However, I’m in the very privileged position to be financially stable enough not to need to return until April (13 months off in total) which was my original plan. I love my time with DS, he’s an absolute joy and my heart is here at home with him. When I go back, my DH will be a SAHP so I have no worries about child care either.
My head however is thinking if I go back to work now, it puts me in a great position for my further development and will accelerate my career if I’m part of the rebuilding conversation and also means I avoid a shit show in April and also means I’ll still have a job (I LOVE my job). I care a lot about my team and my product, but obviously care about DS more.
I’m a first time parent and I’m looking for a WWYD really from anyone with experience of going back to work earlier than you expected. Did you regret it? Will I?
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Very conflicted and desperately need advice
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Conflictedboobs · 28/10/2021 10:35
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