I’ve been broody since I was a teenager and always melted at the sight of babies. I’ve always been the mothering type and the first to offer to babysit nieces/nephews/cousins etc.
I’ve worked in child related roles, had a kinship arrangement to a younger member of the family and been a full time carer.
I’ve been moaning to DP for a couple of years how much I want my ‘own’ and now he’s wanting us to start trying.
Since he’s mentioned that he’s more than happy for us to start trying I’m scared shitless. We’ve got our own house, good salaries each, good place career wise and doing quite well in life.
I’m not sure if it’s coming out of lockdown and everything opening back up again (having fomo of missing festivals/girls holidays/nights out etc).
We have a decent plan of us both splitting the childcare bill and doing 50% of the childcare/house work/life admin but I’ve got cold feet.
Anyone else felt this way?
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Beachybeach · 21/10/2021 19:30
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