Matched with a guy who sent me a message & was complimentary on my personality as opposed to the lewd messages I've had from a lot of men. He then tried to make me laugh which fell a bit flat and I forgot to reply!
But then I found myself randomly thinking about him one day & when I checked the app he had popped back up 6 days later saying he'd like the chance to get to know me better in person at a time that suits me if I'm open to it. Overall, it was very sweet and I agreed. Reading his profile again, I realised how closely his description of himself sounded like what I'm looking for.
He asked when would suit me and this is when I clarified that he lives in the next city over, an hour apart. This is no secret - it clearly says on both our profiles where we live. I said I could meet him when I'm there for work/suggested a day and he hasn't replied for over 24 hours which is unusual.
I personally think this isn't a good sign & think maybe he has got cold feet because of the distance? I forgot how maddening it was waiting for replies and was getting excited about the thought of meeting him!
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Tinder date gone cold?
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MargaretMorris · 21/09/2021 23:27
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