I'm at a bit of a loss and need some help before the next couple of years of my life disappear into a hole of horribleness
I have 2 young children (5&3) and in my 3rd trimester with very unplanned/surprise DC3. I am so, so irritable and horrible all the time. I constantly snap at the children for doing children things (talking constantly, demanding stuff, whining, being slow, being messy, basically nothing actually bad or naughty but just irritating as fuck)
My DH is generally lovely but even him breathing makes me want to cry and scream at him to stop. He is great with the kids etc etc but does have a fairly well-defined lazy streak, so will sleep on well after they are awake, is incredibly messy, needs nagged to do anything remotely domestic. He does do a fairly long list of other stuff that needs doing so isn't a complete waste of space.
I'm in a constant fug of grumpy, horrible, tearful nagging and snapping. I need to change but just don't know how. Everything annoys me. Every. Single. Thing. My beautiful family is amazing and I love them so deeply but I am so irritated by them and can't see their good points.
I remember from my first two DC how incredibly hard the first year of a newborn's life is and if I don't change we're not going to get through this intact.
If you are a reformed grump, a chilled parent, and just a happy person please tell me how? I feel so sorry for the kids growing up with me in the house.
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I am horrible to my kids and DH all the time and it's fucking miserable
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HateThisLife · 02/08/2021 08:39
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