I had my first baby just before I turned 41. She is now a year old. My DH and I would ideally like to have two children. I had a cesarian and was told not to conceive for 18 months, so that would be next Jan to conceive at the earliest. I am also very aware that conceiving may not be as easy as it was last time, or maybe it would be - we can't know. In many ways I dread the thought of another baby, and I haven't always loved the baby stage, but I adore my DD of course, and love it now she can walk around and do more stuff, and I do imagine having two children in the future if possible. In an ideal world, I would always choose a longer gap between babies so that the elder one is at school, but this isn't reality. In addition, we are putting our house in the market and are looking to relocate around new year which is always stressful. So much to think about and deal with I know.
I just wanted to hear from anyone who had two DC after 40 and how they managed it. Ideally I'd love to hear any positive stories from mums who've managed it successfully and kept their sanity. I am (or was) very fit and sporty before DD, and visualise getting myself back to fitness once we have finished having babies, but I know that mid 40's nothings as easy. Before anyone says don't have DC after 40, I didn't meet my husband until I was 38. Sometimes life doesn't pan out how you planned it.
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Positive stories of having 2 DC over 40?
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GreenAndAmber · 25/07/2021 13:31
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