I’m 38, I have endometriosis and adenomyosis. Since my twins were born 4.5 years ago, once my periods returned my cycles have been 21-28 days (usually 24 days, with 10 day periods). My pain has been worsening all this time, but the last 4-5 months have been actually horrifying. My last laparoscopy was 5.5 years ago, and I haven’t really taken hormones since my twins were born other than a couple of brief periods on the pill (last one a year ago) as everything causes me too many side effects.
Anyway, last several months my pain has worsened, especially mid cycle - initially just a day of pain, but this month the pain has lasted from about day 10 to now - I’m day 33, no period just awful pain. I don’t think I’ve ever had a cycle longer than 30 days in my life so I’m a bit concerned.
GP has referred me for an urgent scan since the amount of pain mid cycle is unusual for me, as is my missing period. Blood and urine tests too.
I’ve got some pregnancy tests coming tomorrow just to definitively rule that out (vanishingly unlikely - sex is too painful, we tried about 7 weeks ago for about 5 seconds before I stopped it, and I’ve had a very heavy period since then which is normal for me)
In the last couple of days I’ve had a couple of hot flushes - not really terrible but noticeable, and again unusual for me. I was on a menopause inducing drug in my 20s so had hot flushes etc then but they were much worse than what I’m having now.
If you went into early menopause, what were your symptoms like? Did you have a period of peri menopause or did your periods just stop suddenly? Now wondering if the increasing pain and worsening periods over the last six months has actually been a build up to menopause, and maybe now my cycles will get longer, or maybe it’s just done? My twins are non ID so would have released two eggs, which can be a sign that your ovaries are going out of business soon!
Will obviously wait and see what all the tests say but I’m just wondering if early menopause tends to be more sudden rather than gradual?
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Early menopause - what happened for you?
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SinkGirl · 15/04/2021 21:58
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