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If there was only one instruction you could leave to others, on your death , what would it be ?

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whatsnewpussycat777 · 12/02/2021 22:12

Such a deep question for a Friday night 😃

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Snowymcsnowsony · 12/02/2021 22:13

To love my ddogs!! I have made dd promise to sneak the smallest one into hospital should I end up in one!!

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Nanuki · 12/02/2021 22:14

Be loved as much as I was loved.

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BonnesVacances · 12/02/2021 22:15

DH is under instructions to tell my extended family they are all fuckers that treated me like shit.

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stayathomer · 12/02/2021 22:16

Everyone make sure to look out for each other no matter what

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Theimpossiblegirl · 12/02/2021 22:17

To my girls, be there for each other.
I'm honestly so glad they have really bonded this last year. They're late teens so if I went now, I know they'd get through it together.

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Apileofballyhoo · 12/02/2021 22:17

Give all the love you can to my DS.

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MoiraNotRuby · 12/02/2021 22:17

Aside from obvious things that people generally do anyway (try your best, be kind etc) - I'd like everyone who misses me, and can donate blood but hasn't got round to it, to do that in my memory.

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OohKittens · 12/02/2021 22:17

Everyone is to sing remember you're a womble at my funeral.

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N4ish · 12/02/2021 22:18

This might sound morbid but my instruction would be that I don’t want an open casket, closed coffin only.

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Oversize · 12/02/2021 22:18

Stick together and remember that your father is a pathological liar who treated you like shit. He won't change.

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Timeforabiscuit · 12/02/2021 22:18

Please no shit funeral in a conveyor belt crematorium, with a twenty minute service where your shuffled out as the next funeral party are shuffled in.

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sadpapercourtesan · 12/02/2021 22:19

Don't let my mother anywhere near my kids.

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Pushmepullyou · 12/02/2021 22:20

I was going to say play bring me sunshine at my funeral. But now I’m tempted to change to remember you’re a Womble!

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dotcombubble · 12/02/2021 22:22

Call an undertaker ?

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TheSockMonster · 12/02/2021 22:23

For them to know how much I loved them and how happy they made me, and for them to be there for each other.

And a final reminder of the passcode to the safe for DH Grin

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OohKittens · 12/02/2021 22:25

@Pushmepullyou I've told everyone my request for remember you're a womble since I was about 12 (I'm now 36). It is such a great song

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Uncurtailed · 12/02/2021 22:27

Delete the internet history lol

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ChampagneCommunist · 12/02/2021 22:28

Do not sell my yarn at the same price I told you I paid for it.

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Dora26 · 12/02/2021 22:28

Party party party ( and I will leave enough to start in style - I want EVERYONE to remember the hangover they had after Doras funeral!)

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dottiedaisee · 12/02/2021 22:29

Make sure the dogs water bowl isn’t dry !

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LadyDanburysCane · 12/02/2021 22:30

Funeral to be cheap as possible. Don’t waste money on my empty shell. Live your lives to the fullest and remember me with smiles not tears.

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Ethelswith · 12/02/2021 22:30

Don't chuck my stuff away without checking all the pockets or riffling through all the pages. I have stuff stashed everywhere

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Justmuddlingalong · 12/02/2021 22:31

Don't open the little pink case beside my bed. Just bin it.

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colouringindoors · 12/02/2021 22:32

Love my kids and remember that their dad, despite what he may say is a fucking emotionally disabled, lacking in good judgement dickhead who talks the talk, but that's it.

Thank you.

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weebarra · 12/02/2021 22:32

A friend of mine died yesterday after (and as a cancer survivor, I hate battle metaphors) fighting and fighting to stay alive.
I know she'd be telling us all to enjoy the live we have. And to wear coordinated accessories!

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