What's your very very very best attribute ?

You have got great qualities then @wonderwhatshappening1978. Really reassuring
I’m very calm and decisive in a crisis.good at imbuing a sense of calm on others too

I'm great at staying calm in a crisis and coming up with pragmatic solutions.

I'm shit at dealing with other people crying and have a tendency towards sarcasm and dark humour that can shock people.

friendly and make people feel they're worth something That’s gold plated

Ow don’t be an eejit. You’re just fine

I think I am a good listener. I try to see the other person's point of view. But not when they are shouty and talking over me!

For me... I have shit loads of self confidence. I'm pretty sure it annoys others on occasion but for me it's my best attribute. Little things that bother others just dont get to me because my confidence doesn't put it on my radar

I have good social skills. I can talk nicely to strangers and make them feel comfortable. If I am there your social event will not go to shit.

I am excellent at recommending books for people.

I can cook really fast.

It's worth duck all. I was once told I look lovely when I smile but I closely resemble the side of a barrage balloon so that's wrong.

I genuinely care, and will always check in.

But any woman who used that image would immediately endear herself to me as probably witty and funny.

I'm able to stay calm and keep a clear head during a crisis or stressful event. Its like something switches on and I can do whatever needs to be done.

Timekeeping.