I going to keep this very short.
I'm mid 40s. I had an emotionally and physically abusive abusive childhood. Whilst the physical abuse ended when i was 18 amd left home, the emotional abuse continued until i cut contact with my surviving and responsible parent in my late 30s.
The impact has been severe and has negatively affected every part of my life.
I have a lot of the traits of people who have been abused.
I have had therapy and counselling over the years. Many times. But nothing has had sufficient impact. This is largely because I've not been in the right place for it and because my beliefs about myself are so deeply entrenched.
Unfortunately, one of the effects has been that I am unable to hold down a permanent job so, whilst being intelligent, educated and working in a professional field, I only take on short term and temporary positions because it's all i can manage.
This has had a huge adverse impact on my earning potential and, quite frankly, i simply can't afford more therapy.
I feel that my best option is one of acceptance. Acceptance that my life will always he less than inwant it to be; acceptance that i will never be able to have a relationship; acceptance that friendships will always be transient; acceptance that I will never achieve professionally etc.
Has anyone else followed a path of acceptance as a way of healing? Has it worked? How did you achieve peace?
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Therapy vs acceptance
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RatherChillyInHere · 08/01/2021 20:44
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