Please help - 1 day old newborn

Can you safely co-sleep? Then she can feed while you lie down?

She sounds like she is just trying to make your milk come in.

I agree. She’s just getting used to the world and needs to be near you, preferably with a boob in her mouth. Your milk will come in and she will (hopefully) chill out. Good luck and hang in there. Co sleeping is the way forward.

At her age it's absolutely normal. The first few days mine was cluster feeding like crazy and then my milk came in and she settled down a lot. I'm sure your baby is doing the same congratulations

I think the advice is not to co-sleep when you’re overtired and may sleep heavily.

Any chance your DH can take her while you grab two or three hours of deep sleep?

You could maybe ask DH to sit and watch you both for half an hour while you sleep and baby feeds?

Perfectly normal, congratulations.

Sorry, wrote my post too slowly, was checking the up-to-date co-sleeping advice!

Would you be prepared to offer formula just to tide baby over so you can get some sleep?

Don't give formula that's a poor idea if you want to breastfeed.

Congratulations on new baby, that sounds completely normal. Ask your husband to watch you so you can cosleep safely, even like three hours and you'll feel so much better. And check the "safe sleep 7" if you haven't already.

Hang in there the first weeks are so hard, especially with a toddler too.

So you’re second night? Both of mine cluster fed all night on the second night - in fact they actually had a poster up on the maternity wants warning new mums about the second night and that it was totally normal! Doesn’t make it any easier though. If I were you I’d talk to your midwife about it now. Tell her that your body needs (needs, not wants!) sleep and if there’s anything she can do to help support that. It might be that she can guide you in how to co-sleep safely. Even if there’s nothing she can do then it’s still a good idea to tell her as they may be able to keep an extra eye on you.

I hope that you can get some sleep and very many congratulations on your new baby

Totally normal but absolutely brutal. Sounds like mature milk being brought in and 1-4am is the time when your prolactin is highest so that’s when nature tells her to go for it!

She should be weighed on day 3 which will give you an idea of what she’s getting, that combined with wees and poos it all sounds good

Congrats 🥳

Completely normal. Make sure YOU are eating and drinking enough, especially chocolate!
Safe cosleeping on my side saved me a d helped me get some much needed sleep
You are doing a great job!

When I was just so tired, I asked my husband to watch them in bed with me so I could sleep while they fed, he just read a book. It just got me through that awful bit when like you labour had taken up a night then the constant feeding.

I’m glad you posted. I am day 2 and was in exactly your situation but at home last night. She carried on with cluster feeding all through the morning as well. It’s my 2nd baby too and I have been questioning myself on whether it was normal and whether I should be letting her suck for so long. Clearly it is normal! My milk seems to have come in this afternoon/evening and she is going about 2hrs now before more feeding cues. (Still won’t be put down in her cot so DH and I are doing shifts overnight. Can’t remember how long that goes on for!!!)

Yes, cluster feeding is totally normal at this stage, my DC2 who is 6 months now was exactly same and my milk came early morning on the third day. Before that he was on a boob, pretty much, constantly!
I’d suggest loads of skin to skin cuddles, try to power through tonight and tomorrow morning, maybe ask your husband to take kids for a walk, even 30 min will help.
Good luck, fingers crossed milk will arrive any moment now and your little girl will have a good sleep and so will you

Don't give formula that's a poor idea if you want to breastfeed.

Minimum for a short time while OP gets some decent sleep. Under normal circs I’d agree, but sleep deprivation like she describes can be pretty awful.

She sounds perfect. You might want to go onto Facebook and search for la leche League zooms. There's loads and they're really good at helping especially with early stage

That’s a great idea to get your OH to watch (read) while you sleep - feeding baby

I agree, do not give Formula. You're both doing a fabulous job with your breastfeeding journey.
If tired, perhaps express and bottle feed but then you've got the exhausting planning, sterilizing, which ones are clean, which ones aren't yawn.
Keep going, if she's weeing and pooing and you can hear her swallow, you're doing perfect!

I don't think that's necessarily true that formula in this situation is a poor idea, my eldest had formula in his first couple of days as I had had an emergency c-section and I went onto breastfeed him for 2 years. I had a similar situation to you OP where he was constantly on my boob but still giving clear feeding signals, and a midwife suggested a little bit of formula and that really settled him as he just must have been super hungry! Congratulations on your new DD

I have given all of my babies 1 or 2 feeds of formula whilst waiting for my milk to come in for this reason. Went on to feed them all of them on breast milk exclusively for over a year. Give yourself a break if you need to!

Congratulations! Totally normal

Both mine had formula in the first few weeks (weight loss issues) as you’ve bf before one feed might just help you get some sleep. Whoever is looking after the baby and older child needs to make sure you are not disturbed though.
When dd was admitted to the children’s ward for weight loss, the midwives readmitted me to postnatal and tucked me up in bed in side room and let me sleep for 6 hours. I woke up feeling so much better and was able to care for Dd better as well.