My youngest started school in September and I have 2 older girls.
My youngest has become very friendly with another boy who is very loud, very boisterous, what I would call disrespectful to his parents and has gotten into trouble a few times already.
The teacher has advised me at parents evening that my son and this boy have been "playfighting" alot at school which i kind of knew as my son has come home with injuries. I have spoken to his mum who i am friendly with and her response is always "boys will be boys"
After an incident where my son had marks around his neck I contact the school to notify them of these marks and was told that they roughness was getting out of hand and she has had to speak to them on several occasions. I sat my son down and asked him what was going on and he told me that there are two other boys he likes to play with but this "rough" boy doesn't like him having any other friends. He told me that the only thing this boy ever wants to play is fighting and that if he goes off to play with someone else then this boy tells the teacher on him.
I had the boy round to my house for a playdate before lockdown and found him to be quite spiteful in that he would push my son and my son would push him back but then he would come and tell me that my son had hit him and hurt him. My son says this happens at school all the time.
I have spoken with the mother about this and her response is "they are both as bad as one another" and "its a boy thing"
My son never play fights at home with me or his sisters or his dad and I have spoken to the other two mums of the two boys he likes and they say that my son isn't rough with their boys at all. School say they will keep an eye on it but I'm worried now that this is going to become a problem as they go through school.
Has anyone had any experience of this? He is my first boy and I didn't have this issue with the girls (only bitchiness but never physical)
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Mother thinks "boys will be boys"
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Squidpinky · 21/11/2020 20:00
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