Hello,
Would appreciate some thoughts, my eldest has just started reception. She has settled in nicely, which came as a surprised as she has high functioning ASD and found her nursery a massive struggle.
As I say she's doing well and we're all surprised (and happy!). The only problem is this one child, who we know from nursery and living locally. This child has been hitting, grabbing and generally being very rough with my child and others. There are other behavioural issues generally, she is finding it hard adapting to school.
I know his because as I say I know the mum going back a few years now and we speak at the gate. She's lovely, really kind and friendly but she has always been very 'gentle' on the discipline front even going back to when the children were toddlers. You know, one of the 'you can't say no to children', and no telling off when her child shoves another off the slide just a quiet 'gentle hands please!' sorts. Always figured not my circus, not my monkeys and kept my nose out.
However now this child is upsetting mine, and others. I've mentioned it, politely and reasonably, to the teacher who is already aware and says she is dealing with it. I thought it best to raise with the school not the mum.
The awkward part is 1) the mum keeps complaining to me about the school saying that they're picking on her child, have labelled her as naughty, etc etc etc and that she's very upset with how the school are dealing with her child and also 2) she keeps wanting to do park play dates and my child flatly refuses to go near this other child out of choice. She says she's mean.
I'm just smiling and nodding at the moment but I'm finding it really hard to hold my tongue.
Should I just keep quiet?
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Issues in Reception - awkward!
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secretreader · 16/11/2020 19:16
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