Just wanted to ask for opinions on here and see if this is normal. DD (just 11) started her period this week and didn't say anything to me. DP was the one who found out when he was doing the washing.
I've always tried to have an honest relationship with her and we've talked about these things and I bought a book for her around a year ago when she started getting spots etc. I had a bad relationship with my mum and frequently had to be secretive as she wasn't approachable about anything, but I still told her! I'm wondering what I've done wrong as a mum that my DD wouldn't want to confide in me about such a big event in her life. Maybe I'm overthinking it and this is normal, I don't know.
She dealt with things well and helped herself to sanitary towels and basically got on with it. When I talked to her about it she said she was embarrassed and nervous because she didn't want to wear tampons (not sure where she got that from as that's never anything I've said she should do!).
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Daughter started period and didn't tell me
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expatinspain · 02/11/2020 10:33
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